February is here already. It’s the month of love, and lovers are getting set to ‘pepper’ us, on Valentine’s Day, including those 'Valentine came early'' people. If you are single aka ‘boo-less’, then, this blog is for you. Sit right back with a glass of chilled juice and read on. Oh! It gets better if you are ‘boo-less’ but have a crush. Perhaps, you should sit tighter because we are about to help you get your crush’s attention. Okay wait let’s start with who that crush is. You know that guy/girl who you are currently checking out (stalking) online, the one that gets your heartrate up when you are around them? Yes, that one that makes you blush every time they talk to you. Now, if you can picture that one person as you read this, that’s your crush right there. Keep reading as we are about to guide you on how to get your crush’s attention and turn them into your heartthrob. Rest assured that the old Cinderella, Cleopatra and Back from America story still works in this generation. Let’s get right into it.
First, Be Yourself:
You should totally be yourself and let your crush get to see the real you and decide for themselves if they like you or not. Don’t cringe or laugh at the ‘cliché-ness’ of every single statement. If you pretend to like their favourite sports/movie/series, you would just sound dumb, and they would wonder why you are being so fake. When you act like yourself, you’ll be relaxed, calm, and happy, and your crush will see all of this and want it.
We can’t say there has ever been a time where a well-dressed person hasn’t made an impression on their crush. Being physically attractive can make you a real head-turner. However, while you are it, dress for yourself! Take out time to get a manicure, wear nice cologne and get a good haircut. Don't be too busy that you forget to take care of yourself. And what have you got to lose? Whenever you’re around your crush, just make an effort to look your darn best.
Make eye contact:
It is almost 100% certain that your crush will get attracted when you make eye contact, especially when he/she returns it. Have you tried it and your crush returns it? What did you feel? You felt that exceptional confidence and assurance that this is working, right? (smiles 😊) we know your answer already. While looking at your crush, try to smile, but don’t overdo it because it will freak him/her out. If you build blocks for interaction, it is very important that you make eye contact.
Give them a compliment:
Say something nice to your crush every time. Stuffs like, 'Do you have any idea how adorable you are?' “Why are you looking so amazing everyday”. Everyone likes compliments. There are many advantages of giving compliment. Some of the benefits are that you may likely get back a compliment from your crush. Your crush would feel valued and always love to come around you. While at it, don’t forget to smile at it.
Don't be afraid to confess your feeling:
Even outgoing people may feel shy when it comes to their crush, so it's normal to be nervous. It’s okay to let your crush know how you feel about them in the most subtle manner. You may not want to confess your feelings because you are afraid to get rejected. It just takes a little move and bravery. Shoot your shoot! You can't tell whether your crush has been waiting for you to make a move.
I hope that after reading this, you will be able to have your long-awaited crush notice you. Keep believing! Love is at the door! Now, you got this. Go be confident! Be self-assured. Put your best convo-starters to work and text your crush about their weekend plans.
Good luck with your love journeys this valentine.
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